Here are some basics to help you adjust to your new living situation.

Living With Roomates

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Living with roommates for the first time can seem daunting, but don't worry. Flagler College outlines some basics to help you adjust.

Roommate Agreements

Once you move into your new home, you will meet your new roommate(s). While we wish for the best possible scenario, we understand that sometimes it can be challenging to adjust how you live. 

We require all roommates to fill out a Roommate Agreement Form. A Roommate Agreement is an agreement made between roommates about the different responsibilities and needs of each roommate in the room. It can specify cleaning schedules, sleep schedules, or needs regarding lights and music in the room while studying. 

Once they are filled out, a copy will be kept on file with your Resident Advisor, and another will be posted visibly in your room.

It is important to note that while living with someone, there will be times when things do not go how you are used to or expected. Roommates are expected to learn how to compromise and understand that conflict naturally occurs when you are sharing a space. 

Learning how to communicate with each other is vital for everyone’s success and experiences. If a situation ever becomes unsafe, though, the Office of Residence Life will assist and ensure all parties are safe.

Tips for Living With Your New Roommate

Here are some tips to help things go more smoothly.

Clear Communication From the Start

Having communication between roommates is extremely important for amicable living. If you set ground rules from the start, both roommates know precisely what is expected of them. This keeps roommates from arguing over problems that could have been addressed when first moving in together.

Solve Problems as Soon as You Can

Letting problems fester is one of the easiest ways for students to dislike their roommate. If you have something that’s bothering you, it’s best to get it out in the open as soon as possible. This helps roommates know what’s bothering each other and do their best to fix it.

Remember Whose Belongings Are Whose

No one likes it when someone messes with their things. Having respect for each other is a key part of having a roommate. It may not seem like a problem with one roommate, but it can be a big problem for the other. The best practice is to set ground rules about each other’s things from the start, and always ask if it’s OK to borrow the other’s belongings.

You May Not Be Best Friends

We always see on TV and in movies where college roommates are best friends. This isn’t always the case. Students may not be great friends with their roommates, but that’s OK. The most important thing is respecting each other, so you both can enjoy your time as much as possible.

Remember the Golden Rule

Always treat your roommate how you would like to be treated. 

If you follow this rule, you’ll know your roommate is being respected how you would like. If you want to be notified when your roommate has other friends over, make sure that you’re telling your roommate when your friends are over. Learning to live with a college roommate can be a wonderful time and growth experience. Setting a few ground rules can be the key to building good memories that last a lifetime.